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Provide a Place of Mercy
Exodus 25:17
"And thou shalt make a mercy seat of pure gold: two cubits and a half shall be the length thereof, and a cubit and a half the breadth thereof."
The mercy seat is a very important place for the child of God. It is the place where God sprinkled His blood for the atonement of our sins. It is the mercy seat that allows a person to establish a relationship with God. Without the mercy seat, every person would be destined to Hell. God knew that man would need a place to have their sins atoned so that they could establish a relationship with God.
Just like God provided a mercy seat for every person, I believe that you should provide a mercy seat for people. What I mean by this is that you must establish a place of mercy in your heart for others when they wrong you. Let's be realistic, people are going to hurt you and wrong you. Because people are going to wrong you, you need to have a place of mercy in your heart so that you can continue to have a good relationship with others.
Because God built a mercy seat, that means He expected mankind to wrong Him. Just like God expected mankind to wrong Him, you need to expect that every person will wrong you or hurt you at some time in your relationship. If you are unrealistic about your relationships with others, then you will never overcome the hurts of people. For instance, you need to expect that your spouse will hurt you at some time in your marriage. You need to expect that your child will hurt you at some time in your life. You need to expect that your parents will hurt you at some time. You need to expect that your siblings will do something to hurt you. You need to expect that your pastor or a fellow Christian will hurt you at some time. It is unrealistic to expect people to never hurt you. The reason it is unrealistic is because people are sinners, and sinners will do wrong.
Furthermore, because you know that people will do wrong, then you need to have mercy on them so you can have a good relationship with them. God provided the mercy seat so that He could have mercy on us when we do wrong, and you need to be merciful to people when they do wrong. Stop blowing up and ruining every relationship because someone hurt you. Realize you need to have a place of mercy in your heart for people when they wrong you. If you expect people to wrong you and you give them a chance for mercy, then you can keep from destroying others and relationships.
Without a place of mercy in your heart for people, then you will become suspicious and judgmental towards everyone. Life is too short not to practice mercy towards those who do wrong. Always have a place of mercy in your heart so that you can keep good relationships with others.