Remembering and Honoring Influences ​​

2 Samuel 9:1
“And David said, Is there yet any that is left of the house of Saul, that I may shew him kindness for Jonathan's sake?”

David may be the most thoughtful person mentioned in the Scriptures. What is amazing about David is that his thoughtfulness process went from God to friends and family, and then outside influences. He understood the importance of remembering those influences who helped him get to where he was. He never acquired the mentality that he did everything himself. He truly understood that there were influences in his life who helped him to climb the corporate ladder.

Your Seat is Empty

1 Samuel 20:18
“Then Jonathan said to David, To morrow is the new moon: and thou shalt be missed, because thy seat will be empty.”

David was running for his life when King Saul had his annual feast where mandatory attendance of his cabinet members was expected. This put David in a bad position because he knew if he went that he would probably be assassinated. David sent word to Jonathan, Saul’s son, and asked him what he should do. Jonathan came up with a plan for David to stay out of town for a night, and at the first night of the feast, he would see if David would be missed because his seat was empty. Of course, David was missed, and Saul became angry at Jonathan for protecting David from being killed.

A Sure Way to Lose

1 Samuel 13:22
“So it came to pass in the day of battle, that there was neither sword nor spear found in the hand of any of the people that were with Saul and Jonathan: but with Saul and with Jonathan his son was there found.”

No army would go into battle with the goal of losing the war. Army troops would not go into battle without the weapons needed to fight the war and defeat the enemy. It would be total foolishness for a leader of a brigade to tell his troops to leave their guns and weapons of war at the camp while they went to fight the battle. That would be ludicrous!

When Sin Leaves You

1 Samuel 7:8
“And the children of Israel said to Samuel, Cease not to cry unto the LORD our God for us, that he will save us out of the hand of the Philistines.”

When Samuel was taking the leadership role over Israel, he was taking a country that was spiritually bankrupt. Eli overlooked sin because he didn't want to deal with the sins of his sons. Because of this, Israel had set up gods to worship, lived wicked lifestyles and had become captives to the Philistines. When you see the condition of Israel when Samuel took over, you will see that sin left them the same way it will leave you when it has taken its course.

Left Alone

Proverbs 29:15
“The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.”

One of the greatest mistakes that many parents make is they leave their children alone because they “trust” them. Years ago, I had an older gentlemen give me some advice before I even had children. He said, “Never trust your children.” I wish every parent would heed that advice because “a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” One of your responsibilities as a parent is to be sure that your children are safe. A child left to themselves are not safe because that is when the Devil will do his work in their hearts. With this thought in mind, let me give you several areas where you should never leave your child alone.

The Wrong Loyalty

Judges 20:13
“Now therefore deliver us the men, the children of Belial, which are in Gibeah, that we may put them to death, and put away evil from Israel. But the children of Benjamin would not hearken to the voice of their brethren the children of Israel:”

The verse above is the result of a very sick story about a man whose concubine left him to go to her father’s house. During the time that she was with her father, she lived an immoral life, but though this man knew about it, he still wanted to reconcile their relationship. He journeyed to her father’s house to reconcile the relationship, and apparently was successful with his attempts.

Trust in My Shadow

Judges 9:15
“And the bramble said unto the trees, If in truth ye anoint me king over you, then come and put your trust in my shadow: and if not, let fire come out of the bramble, and devour the cedars of Lebanon.”

Abimelech was a very wicked man. His desire for power was evident when he killed anyone who could have challenged his ability to reign. He was so wicked that he killed seventy of his half-brothers all because he was afraid one of them might try to remove him from power.

Jumping Too Soon

Joshua 22:11
“And the children of Israel heard say, Behold, the children of Reuben and the children of Gad and the half tribe of Manasseh have built an altar over against the land of Canaan, in the borders of Jordan, at the passage of the children of Israel.”

Many things can damage or destroy a relationship, but one of the biggest contributors is jumping to conclusions. I’ve seen people hear something and instantly correct people without ever giving that person a chance to tell their side of the story. Jumping to conclusions will at best damage the trust in a relationship and at worst destroy it. Many leaders have hurt their ability to lead because they jumped too soon on something they heard. Many friendships have been destroyed because one side believed a rumor and responded without hearing their friend tell their side of the story. This damage to relationships doesn't have to happen.

Victory Perpetuity ​​

Joshua 12:7
“And these are the kings of the country which Joshua and the children of Israel smote on this side Jordan on the west, from Baalgad in the valley of Lebanon even unto the mount Halak, that goeth up to Seir; which Joshua gave unto the tribes of Israel for a possession according to their divisions;”

The verse above is an itemization of Israel’s victories. At the point this verse was recorded, they had conquered several cities, but they still had more land to subdue. One of the reasons God wanted this recorded was because He wanted Israel to keep a victory mindset. God wanted them to remember what He had already helped them to do, but He also wanted them to keep perpetuating victories so that future generations would learn a victory mindset. There are several principles seen in these verses if you want to experience victory perpetuity.

Earning Your Stripes

Joshua 4:14
“On that day the LORD magnified Joshua in the sight of all Israel; and they feared him, as they feared Moses, all the days of his life.”

Taking over the leadership role of Israel was no small step for Joshua. For most people, this would have been an intimidating task, and maybe that is why God said, “Be strong and of a good courage…”Joshua completely understood that he couldn’t replace Moses, but he also understood that somebody had to lead.