Heroes are Discovered

1 Chronicles 10:11-12

"And when all Jabeshgilead heard all that the Philistines had done to Saul, They arose, all the valiant men, and took away the body of Saul, and the bodies of his sons, and brought them to Jabesh, and buried their bones under the oak in Jabesh, and fasted seven days."

Saul had just been killed. Israel was in a state of shock. Their leader was gone, and they didn't know what they were going to do. Their enemies had taken the head of Saul and his armor and set them up in the temple of Dagon, their god. Israel had certainly been shamed. It wasn't anything they had done, but it was a result of the sins of Saul.

Yet, there was a group of men from Jabeshgilead who heard what the Philistines had done to Saul's body. They knew what this meant to Jehovah God. They knew how these people would disgrace their fallen leader, and they were determined not to allow this to happen. So, they risked their own lives to go into land of the Philistines, and into a guarded temple to retrieve the bodies of Saul and his sons so they could have a proper burial, and so that the name of God would not be blasphemed.

Nobody knew that these men would be heroes. In fact, they probably didn't know that they would be heroes. It was just who they were. When tragedy hit and someone needed to stand, they did what everyone should have done and retrieved those bodies.

It seems that every time there is a tragedy that heroes are discovered. What is amazing about many heroes is that they really don't want the attention given to them. Many times these heroes would slip out unnoticed if they had their way. Yet, it is in serious times that these heroes are discovered. Whenever you talk to a hero you always hear how they didn't think about what they were doing, they simply saw that there was a need, and they jumped in to fill that need.

If there is ever a day when we need to discover some heroes, it is today. Our nation is in disarray, and many seem to be careless about its direction. God's name is being dishonored, and very few seem to take a stand. I look at a nation where many Christians just don't want to get involved. Too many people just want to go on with their life as if nothing is happening, but what we need to understand is that something is happening. While many Christians sit idly by and do nothing, our nation seems to be slipping further away from what it should be.

So, you wonder what you can do? First, see the need. You need to see that there is a desperate need for your nation. You need to take the blinders off and see what is truly happening.

Second, you need to pray for God to help your nation. You can cover your eyes and never pray, but that will only hurt your nation. A nation will never be saved without prayer.

Third, you need to get involved in trying to bring your world back to Christ. You may not be able to reach your whole nation, but you can reach your world. God has placed you in your world so you can reach it. You can be a hero to your world if you will try to reach them for Christ.

Will you be a hero to your world? As you go throughout your day, look and see the spiritual needs of people and do what you can to reach them. Be that hero who simply jumps in and tries to meet the needs of those who need help. Real help is Jesus Christ, and you can bring them to Him.


You Can Do Right

2 Kings 16:20

"And Ahaz slept with his fathers, and was buried with his fathers in the city of David: and Hezekiah his son reigned in his stead."

One of the common excuses I hear of why children do wrong is their background. I am not going to sit here and say that background doesn't influence a person's decisions, but I am going to say that everyone has a choice of what they become. Anyone can do right if they choose to do so.

I grew up in a preacher's home. In my travels I often hear of preacher's children who have gone the wrong way in life. The excuses I hear as to why they did wrong are amazing. Every time I talk to someone who grew up in a preacher's home and listen to their excuses, I tell them everything I went through, and then ask them if they really want to use excuses. I believe it's not because their father was a pastor that they turned out wrong, I believe it's because they chose to turn out wrong.

On the other hand, I am amazed when I hear about the upbringing of people who turned out right. Often I hear of people whose home life was not good. They tell me their stories, and I sit in amazement that they are serving the LORD. Yet, I watch adults who grew up in a Christian home whose lives are anything but Christian. What's the difference? The difference is in the choices they made.

Hezekiah did not grow up in a good Christian home. His father was anything but a Christian. Hezekiah's father followed the practices of the heathen. He made his children pass through the fire. He lived a heathenistic lifestyle. He practiced idolatry. He even burnt sacrifices to the heathen gods. Yet, Hezekiah was one of the greatest kings who sat on the throne of Israel. Hezekiah had every excuse not to do right because of his home life. Yet, he did right!

What was the secret that made Hezekiah turn out right? The secret was whom he chose to model his life after. 2 Kings 18:3 says about Hezekiah, "And he did that which was right in the sight of the LORD, according to all that David his father did." Notice, he chose to model his life after David, and not after his heathen father. Hezekiah was wise enough to understand that though he did not have a choice in which home he was reared in, he did have a choice in choosing a right role model to follow. His parents certainly tried to force him to do wrong, but they couldn't force him not to choose the right role model.

This is the greatest secret in doing right. It doesn't matter what your background is, in which neighborhood you grew up, or who your parents are, what matters is the role models you choose to copy. If you choose the right role models, you have a better chance of doing right. Just because everyone around you may have the wrong role models doesn't mean you can't choose the right ones. Doing right is a choice, and part of that choice is having the right role models.

Let me ask you, who are your role models? Are your role models pointing you in the right direction? Does their life magnify Christ? Your role models will determine what you become. You must be wise in whom you choose to follow.

Furthermore, parents, you need to be a good role model for their children. Help them to have a easier time in choosing the right role models by doing right at home. You should also point your children to the right role models. Your influence on their life is great, and showing them who the right role models are will greatly influence their future.

Always remember you can do right. No matter how you were reared and what has happened to you, you can do right. The greatest influence in doing right is your role models, so choose them wisely!


Handling Crisis Situations

2 Kings 4:40

"So they poured out for the men to eat. And it came to pass, as they were eating of the pottage, that they cried out, and said, O thou man of God, there is death in the pot. And they could not eat thereof."

Recently my daughter and I were in the car going to pick up our dog from the veterinarian, when I looked to my left and saw a man fall to the ground. Immediately, I made a u-turn and went to the parking lot where the man fell so I could help. As I got to the gentleman, I was amazed how people were standing around him doing nothing as he was bleeding. I quickly got down and started helping him until the paramedics could get there. What amazed me was how people didn't know what to do in a crisis situation.

In the verse above, Elisha faced a crisis situation. The preacher boys had prepared a meal to feed the crowd, only to realize after they served it that there was poison in the pot. The preacher boys were in a panic, but Elisha calmly took the situation and handled it correctly. His handling of the situation kept people from losing their lives.

How you handle crisis situations can literally be life and death. Certainly at times it can be a literal life and death situation, but it could also be a life and death situation for a person's future. Because in the Christian life we deal with people, every situation we handle is a life and death situation. When a crisis comes, you must learn how to handle them properly so you can save those whom you influence from destruction. Let me give you some suggestions on handling crisis situations.

First, don't panic! One of the worst things you can do is panic. The preacher boys were in panic mode when they discovered the poison in the pot. Panic only makes a situation worse. When a crisis happens, you must learn to stay calm.

Second, plan ahead. I have learned that planning will help you avoid more crisis situations. Planning ahead allows you to give your full attention to the crisis at hand because you've already taken care of situations that you knew would happen. Don't live in crisis mode. Learn to plan ahead so that the crisis is not magnified by poor planning.

Third, ask God for wisdom. Of course, this should be the first thing you do, but sadly most of the time it doesn't cross our mind. If you're not in a panic, you will have the clarity of mind to stop and ask God to give you wisdom on how to handle the situation.

Fourth, assess the situation and take control. Elisha simply looked at what the problem was, and then he took control and fixed it. When a crisis happens, you must step back and look over the situation to come up with a plan on how to handle it.

Finally, work with a controlled and calm spirit. When you are calm in a crisis situation, your calm spirit will calm others. When everybody is calm, then you have a greater chance of settling the crisis.

Everybody will have crisis situations come up from time to time. Always remember that God knew they were going to come. Remember that God is never in a panic mode and that it is going be okay if you will work through the crisis in a methodical way. You will find that when you handle crisis situations right that your influence to help others will increase because they will gain confidence in how you handle these situations.


Praising the Works of the LORD

Psalm 111:1

"Praise ye the LORD. I will praise the LORD with my whole heart, in the assembly of the upright, and in the congregation."

One of the themes of the Book of Psalms is to praise the LORD. Of all the people who ought to be praised, the LORD is most worthy of praise. I would say that we are all guilty of not praising the LORD enough. Sadly, we will sing the praises and works of mankind, but rarely do we stop and spend time praising the LORD.

Psalm 111 shows us that we are to praise the works of the LORD. God says in verse 2, "The works of the LORD are great,..." Though there are many works for which we could and should praise the LORD, God gives us some specific works for which He desires praise.

First, praise the LORD for His work of righteousness. Righteousness is doing right works. In other words, God wants you to praise Him for the work of Calvary. Christian, when is the last time you stopped and spent ten minutes praising God for what He did on Calvary? Do you not remember that His work of Calvary saved you from your sins? A week should never go by that you don't stop and praise the work of Calvary. Praise Him for the work of what His shed blood did by washing your sins away.

Second, praise the LORD for His work of compassion. Verse 4 says that the LORD is "full of compassion." When you were hurting, it was the LORD's compassion that brought you through. Have you praised Him for being compassionate towards you? Nobody deserves the LORD's compassion, yet He found it in Himself to show you compassion when you were hurting. When a loved one passed away, it was the LORD's compassion that helped you. When you experienced life's hurts, it was the LORD's compassion that comforted you. You ought to take time to praise Him for His compassion.

Third, praise the LORD for His work of provision. Verse 5 talks about God giving "meat" to those who fear Him. Have you ever looked in your cabinets or refrigerator and stopped to praise the LORD for providing your food? I'm afraid all of us have taken for granted the provision God provides for us on a daily basis. You ought to be sure to praise Him for your cabinets being full of food.

Fourth, praise the LORD for His work of protection. In verse 6, God reminds us how He protected us from the heathen's attack. When the world has tried to destroy you, God was there to protect you. Everyone at some time has had the LORD's protecting hand save them from the attacks of the heathen. You ought to take time to praise Him for His protection.

Finally, praise the LORD for His work of redemption in your life. Verse 9 says, "He sent redemption unto his people:..." A day should never go by that you don't praise Him for saving your soul. The work of God's redemption in your life saved you from Hell. The LORD's work of redemption saved your life from much heartache that sin would have brought if He hadn't redeemed you. Don't take for granted the work of redemption, but stop and praise Him for this great work.

Friend, don't ever let a day go by that you don't take time to praise the LORD for His works in your life. Maybe on one day one of these works means more to you than the other; then take time to praise Him for that work. On the other hand, you could take two or three of these works and spend time praising Him collectively for them. However you choose to do it, be sure to regularly praise the LORD for His works.


The Poster-child of Poor Leadership

1 Kings 1:5

"Then Adonijah the son of Haggith exalted himself, saying, I will be king: and he prepared him chariots and horsemen, and fifty men to run before him."

You often read books and articles about what makes great leaders, but often miss the important principles of what makes poor leadership. Poor leadership reveals what type of leadership is good. Studying the negative side of leadership will point out what you should not do, but it can also teach what you should do.

Adonijah is one of those people in the Scriptures who shows us what makes up poor leadership. When his father was old, and he knew that his days were numbered, he arrogantly proclaimed himself to be the king. If it wasn't for the Prophet Nathan stepping in, Israel easily could have had this poor character as their king. You will find in Adonijah's short time of leadership several characteristics that make a poor leader.

First, poor leadership points to themselves. It says in the verse above, "Then Adonijah the son of Haggith exalted himself,..." This man was so filled with pride that he wanted everyone to see how great he thought he was. You will find that great leaders don't point to themselves, but they point to the one whom they represent. A great pastor will point to Christ. A great political leader will point to the greatness of their country.

Second, poor leadership desires position. Adonijah said, "I will be king:..." He was not appointed to this position. He was not elected to this position; instead, he lobbied for this position. The poorest leader will be one who desires position. One of the reasons there are so many poor political leaders today is because many of them have campaigned their whole adult life for that position. Some of the greatest leaders of history were not one's who wanted the position, but they were one's who others begged to take the position. Poor leadership fills their time trying to get position while great leadership fills their time doing what they are supposed to do.

Third, poor leadership will not follow the advice of previous generations. It says about Adonijah that he did not confer with the mighty men who followed his father. You will find that poor leadership often despises the successes of previous generations. You will often find that poor leadership will belittle the successes of previous generations in order to build themselves and their "successes." The only way poor leadership will look great is to belittle what previous generations have done.

Fourth, poor leadership is wasteful. In verse 9, Adonijah wasted sheep, oxen and cattle in abundance. Poor leadership does not understand the value of using their resources wisely. Poor leadership will always look how they can spend what they have instead of saving and giving back to their followers.

Whenever you look for someone to lead you, your family, or your church, always be sure that they don't have the characteristics of poor leadership. Poor leadership can look enamoring, but they will eventually hurt you and those whom you love. When looking for leadership, do what Jeremiah did in Jeremiah 5:5, "I will get me unto the great men, and will speak unto them; for they have known the way of the LORD,..." You will always be safe if you get to those who "have known the way of the LORD."


Are You Bothered?

2 Samuel 11:25

"Then David said unto the messenger, Thus shalt thou say unto Joab, Let not this thing displease thee, for the sword devoureth one as well as another: make thy battle more strong against the city, and overthrow it: and encourage thou him."

The verse above is very disturbing to say the least. Joab and Israel fought against the Ammonites. As was the normal case, Joab sent a servant to David to give him an update on the status of the war. This update was different from the rest. In this update was a report that several men were killed when they tried to take a city. Joab informed the messenger to be sure that he included that Uriah had also been killed in this battle.

There was a reason Joab wanted the message of Uriah's death sent out. That reason was because David wanted him to be killed. When the messenger told David that Uriah had been killed, it didn't bother him. He acted as if nothing had happened. David's sin had caused a heart that once used to be tender towards God and fervent against sin to be cold and indifferent. The coldness and indifference towards sin was so evident that Joab saw it. It's also disturbing that it didn't seem to bother Joab.

It is amazing how sin causes people to become indifferent towards it. It is astonishing how sin can cause a heart to be cold. It is stunning how sin can turn a tenderhearted person into a cold and calculated manipulator. That is what David became. It didn't bother him that a wife lost her husband. It didn't bother him that men lost a friend forever. It didn't bother him that people's lives were turned upside down. The only thing that mattered to David was that he got his way. The only thing that was important to David was that he could seemingly commit a great sin and get away with it because of his stature. What David didn't calculate in this whole plan was that God knew what he did and that he would eventually be held accountable for his sin.

Christian, let me ask you, does sin bother you? Has your sin caused your heart to become cold and indifferent towards the sins of society? Can you hear about the sins of people and it not bother you? It is amazing how our sin can cause us to look at sin through a different set of eyeglasses. It is amazing how our sin can turn a heart cold and indifferent towards its affect on others.

Sin should bother you! It doesn't matter how "big" or "small" your sin is, it should bother you. It should bother you because it bothers God. You have serious heart problems when you can commit sin and go on as if nothing happened. You have serious heart problems when you think you can manipulate your way out of sin's consequences.

What is the answer for a heart like this? The answer is to throw yourself at the feet of God and ask Him to change the heart of stone back into a heart of flesh. The answer is to confess your sin to God. If you find yourself looking at sin and not being bothered by it, then you have a good indication that you have a spiritual heart problem. Your daily prayer should be to ask God to keep your heart from being hardened towards sin. Your prayer should be to ask God to help you see your sins the same way He sees them. Don't ever get to the point that sin doesn't bother you. Whether or not it affects you or others you love, sin should always bother you. The test of a heart towards God is how much sin bothers it. Does the sin of others bother you? Better yet, does your sin bother you? Your honest answer to these questions will show your spiritual condition.


Choosing Between Family

1 Samuel 19:17

"And Saul said unto Michal, Why hast thou deceived me so, and sent away mine enemy, that he is escaped? And Michal answered Saul, He said unto me, Let me go; why should I kill thee?"

There are two stories with the same invaluable lesson for your marriage. The first story I want to point out is the story from the verse above. David is the son-in-law to King Saul. Michal, David's wife, loved her husband dearly to the degree that she put her life on the line for him. Saul put Michal in a bad position when he sent his men to kill David, for he was forcing her to choose between him, her father, and her husband. As much as she loved her father, she made the wise choice in choosing her husband over her father.

The second story in found in 1 Samuel 25. Abigail was faced with a hard choice to defend her husband who was not a good man over David. David came to her husband and asked for food, but her husband answered him roughly even though he and his men had taken care of her husband's servants. When she received word that David was going to kill her husband and his servants, she quickly found a way to appease David. Though Abigail's husband was not what he was supposed to be, she still chose him in spite of his bad behavior.

In these stories you will find one of the most important lessons for a happy marriage. In both stories these ladies chose their husband over everyone else. They understood their role as a spouse. They understood that you always choose your spouse over family and others.

One of the greatest causes of marital problems is family. No matter how you look at it, you are going to have to deal with family in your marriage. It may be that your family are the one's who are trying to cause division, or it could be your in-laws who are trying to cause the division in your marriage. In either case, it is important that you always choose your spouse over your family.

When you married your spouse, you vowed to choose them above all others. The exact phrase you said was, "...forsaking all others." This phrase was not just talking about forsaking the opposite sex, but it was also talking about your family. This phrase gets its authority from Genesis 2:24 when it says, "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh." You will notice that you are commanded to "cleave" unto your spouse. In other words, you should get so close to your spouse that nothing comes between you.

You are going to have to choose your spouse over all others if you are going to have a happy marriage. You must choose your spouse over your parents and siblings. You must choose your spouse over your own children. If you are forced to choose one of these over your spouse, you simply tell them that if they are going to force you to choose between the two, that you will choose your spouse every day of the week.

When your spouse knows that you will choose them over your parents, siblings and children, then that choice will instill a security in your marriage like nothing else can. Don't ever let anything come between you and your spouse. Always remember that your spouse should be chosen above all else. When married couples get this settled, then they will discover the happiness that marriage can bring.