1 Corinthians 3:3
"For ye are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are ye not carnal, and walk as men?"
Dealing with strife can be one of the most stressful things. Proverbs 17:1 says, "Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife." A home that is filled with strife is a home that has no joy. A church that is filled with strife is a church where its members endure. Those who deal with strife oftentimes will do anything to get away from it. Many Christians quit church and serving God because they just don't want to deal with the drama and strife at their church. I have talked to many people who have told me the reason they don't go to church is because of the strife at their church.